I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions to what you think would make this blog better? This blog is for you guys so I would like to know what it is that you guys are looking for in a LDR blog, please give us some ideas! THANKS!
I know I do :/
…I saw my boyfriend<3 And it was absolutely amazing. I’m not too sure of when I will be seeing him again, but I really hope it’s soon. :/
It was also the first night that we actually spent together!! :) It was such a wonderful feeling falling asleep in his arms and waking up to his kiss on my forehead and him saying “good morning beautiful, i love you” I just really cannot begin to explain the happiness that was flowing through my body.
I hope you guys get to experience this feeling soon. I hope you’re all staying strong and never losing hope because that’s so important in a long distance relationship.
I love you all,
A Beautiful Poem Submission by: shaykhness
It was a journey worth it,
She was there, staring at me. Eyes wandering but heart focused.
At me, she gazed, loved overcame her and she took me hard - hard enough that no man can ever pull away.
Even if it was the strongest man.
I am not strong as I come out to be with others.
I was so weak that one evening. It was sometime after sunset at the beach. Thought of her passing away came to me, because no one knows their appointed time in this world when it can come.
The lights of the tall buildings lit the sea with colours of emotion and joy.
My tears and emotional eyes became a residence of water swimming itself at. She didn’t realize until my voice became teary.
[She was sitting on the beach and I stood leaning on the bench behind].
She said thrice or so some words to comfort me. I couldn’t submit to those.
She stood up, came beside me. I didn’t turn towards her. My face did for a few seconds. I looked away. She turned me by putting her hands on my shoulder [felt amazing by the way]. Turned me and hugged me so tight. I felt so comforted and satisfied by her hug.
I forgot where, what, when. I forgot all else, except me and our God.
It was so tight, I couldn’t pull away. Some minutes later, we danced in a dark circle park thing. No one could see.
Holding her in my arms was such a feeling. It was beyond this materialistic world.
- I’d really like to continue but I have to write another poem and stuff for her…
did u like it?
Im in Canada and she’s elsewhere..more than 15 hrs away from flight….LDR :/
Yes, I loved it, I actually felt I was there with you, so realistic.
Submitted by: kida155
We met online when I was 15, he was 23. We were only friends at the time, chatting every now and then. He followed me on a site where I posted my art, he liked it, and that’s where we first talked. The age wasn’t important, as it wasn’t really shared on that site. I have followers of many different ages, so it really didn’t matter.
I moved to Hawaii, and depression set in because I didn’t have many friends. The school I went to had students who, unfortunately, weren’t very social with newcomers. I could only make a handful of friends, and even then, I didn’t hang out with them as often as I had with my friends in Colorado. I was becoming suicidal, I almost started to cut myself. He didn’t know I felt this way, but he still started to talk to me more often. We don’t have an actual date for the day, but I remember him saying (after I complained about having a crush on a guy and said guy didn’t return the feelings) “Well he couldn’t care for you like I do.”
After this, the “I love you”s we had been exchanging started becoming more and more serious. We had been considering ourselves a couple, until he finally officially set a date, asking me to be his girlfriend on May 7th, 2010. I was so happy. My depression disappeared, just like that. We spent that summer gaming together, and skyping to hear each other’s voice. I decided to go to an online school, because the education was better than the public schools. But I started to fall behind, as I always do with schoolwork, because I have problems focusing. My grades started to drop. We made some stupid mistakes.
Then my parents found out about us later that year. They took everything away, forbid me from talking to him. The depression came back full force. I’ve been grounded ever since. But we still find ways to tell each other how we’re doing. Our friends all support us in this hard time, so they help us.
I’m now almost 17. He’s 25. People judge our strictly online relationship before they get to know us at all, just because of our ages. They don’t know just how nice we are, how important we are to each other. How much we love each other? No one sees that, they just make horrible assumptions; that he’s a pedophile, that I’m nothing but a naive, stupid teenager, and that he’s only in it to harm me. If that was the case, would he have stayed with me after I said the distance between us is 4,861 miles? After my parents sent him so many threats? We’ve been together for almost two years now, and nothing is going to tear us apart.
We plan to meet the year I turn 18, as it will be legal for us to do so. I look forward to it. We both love each other so much, and we want nothing more than that first hug and kiss to share. The wait and the distance hurts, but we’ll stay strong. It certainly feels better to talk it out…
I can only hope that people will stop judging us, and I hope anyone who reads this will be understanding as well.
Good luck to all of you with LDRs. It’s tough, but we all have to be strong. <3